HOW TO CREATE
JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS
"Shower the people you love with love."
- James Taylor
As most of us have experienced, relationships can bring us our
greatest joys as well as our deepest sorrows. Relationships are
such an integral part of our lives that the quality of our relationships
often determines the overall quality of our lives. How, then,
can we experience relationships that lift us up rather than drag
us down? By exposing limiting beliefs and replacing them with
empowering beliefs, we can all experience the Magic of Joyful
Relationships.
To consciously create the happy, healthy relationships we desire,
let's start by taking a look at:
WHAT DOES NOT CREATE JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS:
• Blaming and Complaining. The more we focus on
the unwanted aspects of others, the more unwanted aspects we elicit
from them. Ouch!
• Expecting Others to Make Us Happy. When our happiness
or unhappiness is dependent on the behavior of others, we give
away both our power and our freedom. :-(
• Trying to Change / Fix / Control Others. If we
need others to change so that we can feel good, we are definitely
looking for happiness in all the wrong places.
There's got to be a better way.
WHAT DOES CREATE JOYFUL RELATIONSHIPS:
• Feel Good First. Being independently happy and
determined to keep our own vibration high is the perfect platform
for creating great relationships. As we know from Law of Attraction,
feeling good IS the most important thing.
• Self-Love First. If we want others to love, value,
and appreciate us, we must love, value, and appreciate ourselves
first. Period.
• Source First. When we tend to our primary relationship
with our Inner Being / Source / God, then all our other relationships
will be harmonious.
• Think and Thank. As we think of things we appreciate
about others and express that appreciation often, we deepen and
sweeten our connection with them.
• Look for Positive Aspects. When we focus on the
positive qualities of others, they will display more of their
positive qualities, at least with us! :-) It helps to remember
this: At their core, EVERYONE is Pure, Positive Energy.
• Tell a New Story. We can free ourselves from past
hurts and painful memories by talking about relationships the
way we want them to be. We can get unstuck by telling a new, improved
story, such as: All my relationships are joyful!
Now that we've shined a light on the major factors behind relationship
woes and relationship bliss, let's turn our attention to what
Law of Attraction considers the key to manifesting wonderfully
harmonious relationships:
DIRECTING OUR THOUGHTS
Although we have no real control over what others are doing, we
have complete control over our own thoughts and, happily, that
is all we need. Our thoughts determine who we attract into our
lives and our thoughts determine how these people behave once
they get there.
Good relationships are creations. As we direct our thoughts
exclusively and consistently toward what we DO WANT in relationships,
we begin consciously and deliberately creating the relationships
of our dreams.
As we maintain a strong connection with Source, love ourselves
and others, appreciate rather than judge, live our lives as we
see fit and let others do the same, accept full responsibility
for our own happiness, feel as good as we can in every moment,
and direct the power of our thoughts toward the positive aspects
of others, we are applying the Law of Attraction to create delightful,
delicious relationships. When we do these things, we are sure
to experience the Magic of Joyful Relationships.
JUST BE IT!!!
Call 512-215-2135 or e-mail
me today.
Together we’ll create YOUR BEST LIFE!
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